Saturday, April 3, 2010

Nat. Childbirth the Bradley Way

So I read back through this again as the birth became more impending. My primary thought is: DO YOUR HOMEWORK. The medical establishment is not trained in what a normal, natural childbirth even looks like. They are trained on the interventions, which they will default to because that is what they know. Childbirth is not a medical emergency. Even if you are convinced you want a "normal" hospital birth, you would show great wisdom in understanding some other perspectives. Every parent's plan is to take care of their child to the best of their ability. Proverbs 15:22 says, "Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed." Relying only on the medical professionals is like having one adviser. It takes work but that is our job as parents. Proverbs 18:15, "The heart of the discerning acquires knowledge, and the ears of the wise seek it out."

Book review at previous Post

East of Eden - John Steinbeck

So I started this around the Vancouver Wine & Jazz Festival (Aug21-23, 2009). I got about a third the way through that weekend. If you know me, that should speak volumes about how good the book was. Unfortunately, it took me another couple months to finish because of projects and travel.

I thought this was one of the best fiction stories I have read. Steinbeck does an incredible job of capturing and painting humanity, personality, and interpersonal dynamics in a clear and engrossing way that draws the reader into the narrative. The diversity of characters guarantees that you will identify with one of them.

I won't go into any real detail about the storyline, but if you are looking for a fiction read that might give you new perspective on yourself and others then this is a great option.

Back from Oblivion

Hello to the few people that followed this blog at one point in time. I am finally taking a little bit of free time to bring this thing more up to date. I have been reading, just not getting in documented. This is my summary of things I need to add.

East of Eden
Natural Childbirth the Bradlely Way & Related
Master Your Money

Tuesday, July 28, 2009

The Suburban Christian - Albert Y. Hsu

I was talking with my brother-in-law about this book and his first question was how the author defined the suburbs. I think that is valid point to establish first. The author starts by saying, "At a most basic and functional level, suburbia is that seemingly self-evident area that is neither urban nor rural and usually is situated between central cities and unincorporated open land." He goes on to point out that almost all suburbs share similar traits regardless of geographical location. Those traits include population density, home ownership, residential status, and journey-to-work. Today, more than half of all Americans live in a suburb, which makes it the largest mission field here at home.

I thought this was a great book because it combined a historical perspective of how suburbia developed, a current discussion of suburbs today, and practical questions/examples about how to live out Christ-like lives in the culture. I would not say I am a history buff, but I am growing to appreciate history more and more. It gives a broader picture of society in which you can see the gradual slippery slopes that are often imperceptible at any given moment. Suburbia has fostered and developed cultures of individualism, commuting, and consuming, which are not Christ-like. The American church, i.e. PEOPLE in America that call themselves Christian, have willingly or ignorantly descended on the slippery slope to a point where we are shaped more by our culture than the truth of scripture. I am a personal witness to a modern day life of individualism and consumerism in my "Christian" walk. God has been gracious to open my eyes to see the truth of the slavery I am in.

In our excess, we have forsaken devotion to God because our bondage is not yet painful enough. We are like the Israelites when God brought them out slavery in Egypt. In Exodus 16 is says that the Israelites grumbled against Moses and Aaron and said, "Would that we had died by the Lord's hand in Egypt, when we sayt by the pots of meat, when we ate bread to the full; for you have brought us out into this wilderness to kill this whole assembly with hunger." Later in the journey, after Moses by God's power, has work so many miraculous wonders providing food and water, the people again complain in Numbers 20 when there is no water at the place they stopped saying, "If only we had perished when our brothers perished before the Lord! Why then have you brought the Lord's assembly into this wilderness, for us and our beasts to die here? Why have you made us come up from Egypt, to bring us in to this wretched place? It is not a place of grain or figs or vines or pomegranates, nor is there water to drink."

I believe we are no different. Christ has called us out as sons and daughters of God to live in the world but not be of the world. To follow Christ is a issue of faith, trusting that he will provide our needs, like food and water, until he brings us into the new kingdom. There are two options. We can live differently than the culture, forsaking our individualism and consumerism (conveniences) for authentic community where we love people, participate in the church, and live lives of discipleship while freely giving to the work of the gospel. Or, we can remain in the culture and cry out under the weight of increasing taxes, debt, commuting time, and health concerns because they assault our individualism and discretionary consumption.

In conclusion, consider the following scriptures:

Ephesians 5:11-16 Do not participate in the unfruitful deeds of darkness, but instead even expose them; for it is disgraceful even to speak of the things which are done by them in secret. But all things become visible when they are exposed by the light, for everything that becomes visible is light. For this reason it says, "Awake, sleeper, and arise from the dead, and Christ will shine on you." Therefore be careful how you walk, not as unwise men but as wise, making the most of your time, because the days are evil.

1 Peter 5:8 Be of sober spirit, be on the alert. Your adversary, the devil, prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour.

Titus 2:11-13 For the grace of God has appeared, bringing salvation to all men, instruction us to deny ungodliness and worldly desires and to live sensibly, righteously and godly in the present age, looking for the blessed hope and the appearing of the glory of our great God and Savior, Christ Jesus

I recommend this book to every Christian with a challenge: WAKE UP sleepers, be sober minded, be alert, be wise. Are you critically evaluating the decisions you make? Are you living sensibly and righteously, denying your worldly desires? The devil is the father of lies and has blinded minds of unbelievers (2 Cor. 4:3-4, John 8:44). If something is commonplace in the world, it should be a red flag that it may be a lie. Are you believing subtle lies because it is inconvenient, uncomfortable , or insignificant to consider the truth?

My prayer is that we will all attain to the unity of the faith, and the knowledge of the Son of God, to a mature man, to the measure of the stature which belongs to the fullness of Christ. No longer being children tossed about by every wind of doctrine (prosperity to the righteous), by the trickery of men (brand marketing), and by craftiness in deceitful scheming (take your pick); but that we will speak (and listen to) the truth in love, growing up in all aspects into Him who is the head, Christ. (paraphrase of Ephesians 4:13-15)

Friday, July 24, 2009

Natural Childbirth the Bradley Way - Susan McCutcheon

Since we are having a baby, I have been reading birthing books. Andrea and I have decided to go the midwife/birthcenter route, because we want personalized care and a medication free birth. In preparation for that I read this book.

The most striking statement in the book is that 90% of births that follow the Bradley Method are completely unmedicated. The other interesting comment is most hospital doctors have not been trained for the "normal", natural birth. They have been trained for births that need intervention; therefore, they are more apt to perform some type of intervention because they don't know if what is happening is "normal".

As with every area of life, it is our responsibility to be informed (critical thinking informed) and not simply rely on the information from any single source (e.g. doctor). The Bradley Method is really about being informed and aware of what is happening physiologically as birth occurs and working with the body. They have found that the biggest hindrance to labor progressing is the mother inadvertently fighting against the what is going on.

Another big component of the Bradley Method is the coach, who also understands the birth stages and supports and encourages the mother. They believe and recommend the best coaches are husbands. I think that is perfect.

I am not sure what else to say about the book in regards to details. I would recommend it to anyone that is going to have a baby. The method can be applied in the hospital and we have friends that have done that. It is a good counter-perspective to the established medical practice.

Two baby thumbs way up!

Monday, July 20, 2009

Vintage Church - Driscoll & Breshears

I have had this one done for a while but I am not real good about doing updates. Consequently, this summary isn't going to be as in-depth as some of my others.

The table of contents summarizes the book nicely. It is the Who, What, When, Why, Where, and How of the Christian Church. The authors seek to bring a clearer understanding of what the Church really should be from a Biblical basis. Driscoll frequently explains why the church he preaches at (Mars Hill; Seattle, WA) has done things a particular way and how that has changed through time. I did appreciate the authors advocating multiple ways to structure and do "church". For example, they recognize the need for large churches and small churches; denouncing the disunity and pride of seeing one as inherently more spiritual or valuable.

In conclusion, I felt this book serves as an excellent reference on the practical details of church today. I could see it functioning as the textbook for Church101.

Recommendation:
For those not familiar with the Church:
Yes

For those who have been burned by Religion:
Yes

For those who super liberal or super conservative:
Yes
, we all need to challenge our skew between truth and grace

For those who think their Church is not being Biblical:
Yes
, with prayer and discussion with your elders

For those planting a Church:
Yes, I think it provides some good perspective through many stages of church growth

For those who don't fall into the above categories:
Yes, unless you have more pertinent things to read.

Some Fresh Posts

Well, it has been a while since I updated this blog. I have slowed down on my reading primarily because of busy summer. This blog has been motivating though, because I am reminded each time I look at it or some other blog that I need to keep reading and posting. Thus, the blog is accomplishing one of my goals in starting it; keep track of my reading so I know when I am slowing down.

I am planning on getting three more books on this week. Nothing too long. Just quick thoughts on/about each book.